was one of the books the students here are encouraged to read. I had jUST finished reading it when I was slAPPEd in the face with the reality of something I am definetly not used to, much less agree with. Here in the Philippines, it is common for men to have MORE THAN ONE family..they marry and then go off with a mistress. This is even smiled upon if the scumbag can support both families. ANd the poor women aren't allowed to complain, or even be SAD!
During clinics this one girl came in, sat down and starting bawling her eyes out, apologizing, explaining that her husband has run off with the neighbours maid, and she can't cry at home because her mom will get mad at her..it was awful. By the end of it, the midwife and I were crying too. It's just so unfair. She gives her heart to this man who can come and go as he pleases, as long as he supports her and his two kids (third on the way). I can't even imAGine what she must be going through inside.
Thursday, September 21, 2006
philippines culture SHOCK
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Hey Jenna, I check your blog every once in a while, its really good to see your thoughts and postings on whats happening in your current living and learning situation. I used to live with Lois at capernwray, so thats the connection, and I skip back and forth from both your blogs to get a fuller picture of the events unfolding for all you ladies.
Keep walking and enjoying the Lord's great blessings.
So great to talk to you today Jenna! I love hearing your voice and expression when talking about stuff that you can't get when you are just reading about your life. Its hard to imagine all the different things about the Philippino culture...especially about the family situations. It just doesn't make sense. How can a cultural belief be so predominat over what must go on in their hearts? I'm glad that you get to experience this though and understand more and more of how God's design and purposes are ultimately so much better than we can figure out on our own. Lots of love to you!
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